Say the real issue plainly
You do not need fancy spiritual language. Explain the situation, what is bothering you and what you want the work to focus on. 'We keep arguing and I want to work on the tension between us' is clearer than a page of conflicting instructions.
Use the listing's purpose as your guide. A service with a specific focus is not automatically a request to handle every problem in your life. If your intention seems broader than the description, ask whether it fits before ordering.
Keep facts, wishes and unknowns separate
For example, describe the behaviour you have actually seen rather than presenting a suspicion as a fact. Then explain the change you want. This gives Sabrina useful context without building the request around an assumption that may be wrong.
- The situation in a few sentences.
- The intended focus of the work.
- Relevant details requested by the listing.
- One question about anything unclear.
Do not overload the request
A clear intention can be strong without becoming a list of demands or guarantees. Leave out unrelated goals and unnecessary private information. The aim is to communicate the work you are choosing, not to write a script controlling every future event.